I was shocked early one morning while coming from Ajose Lecture theatre, that i notice one part student trying to pick some condom packet that fell from his notebook. What in the world can a part 1 student that just resume school be doing with condom(cd) Then this question came into my heart that "Are we men considering how much we loss when we get involve in sex outside the confine of God's law. Ladies know the emotional turmoil they pass through when they loss virginity and get pregnant when they are not yet ready for it.
The case is not the same with guys. Some guys I have interacted only told me the pleasure they derive from premarital sex.
I want the men of my days to aware of the loss of getting involved in premarital sex or adultery (for married men.
I don't want to engage in argument with anyone, therefore most of the reason I giving here is based on the Bible

1.In the book of Genesis, Reuben lost his birthright blessing because he slept father's wife. He was curse by his father Jacob saying Reuben will not prosper. How many of our men are suffering today because immoral act, they are carrying cursing after momentarily pleasure.

2. David, A man beloved of God was dealt with by God after committing Adultery with Bethseba the Wife of Uriah, God cursed David, His own child planned a coup against him, One of his child committed incest with his daughter. A whole king fled away from throne. Adultery destroy men, destroy there reputation and name. Great men are brought to a piece of bread. Ask Bill Clinton what shame he felt, when Monica brought him down from his high pedastal.

3. In the book of First Corinthian, Paul instructed the church to deliver a man who committed adultery into the hand of Satan. My friend, don't you know you deliver yourself into the hand of satan when you get involved in sexual immorality .
4. Imagine the thousand of men that died that day camp of Israel when God came down seeing his redeemed involved sexual immorality.

My dear friend, Our God is looking for men like Joseph who will say "How I Can do this great wickedness and sin against God"
Men who will see Adultery and fornication as wickedness and sin against God.
Men of my day, I making this clarion call, Our destiny is great and bright, don't destroy it because of 5 minute pleasure that lead to eternal regret.
May the Lord help us in this present days to control our passions so that we fall prey into enemy hands who wants destroy our destiny in Jesus Name.
Simeon Tawose